Become The Best You

Confidence. Scary word, if you ask me. Is it overrated? How do you achieve it? Let's talk about that. Most people say it's hard, it's complicated, "I had a rough childhood". You know, I get it. It's not easy standing up to that bully, talking in front of the whole class about global warming(it's real btw) or even talking to that girl you like so much. Confidence does not come from within, no one was born with it, we all have been taught either by someone we know or we taught ourselves. So with that comes good confidence , and bad confidence . Don't get me wrong, the confidence in on itself isn't bad, but the person it. When a 26 years old jock that hasn't been punched in the mouth in his life picks on a weaker individual, then he used that confidence for bad, therfore it becomes bad confidence. But let's be honest for a second here, that doesn't really count as confidence does it? Maybe it's more got to do with the fac...

We all probably have been in a situation where you're alone with your friend or a friend of a friend and you just could not come up with anything to say.  You start getting nervous and start thinking about how awkward it's getting, and the silence isn't helping either. Now you're both just trying to run away with your minds, looking for something around you to talk about, but now it's impossible to get out of the state that you are in. Well, exactly that and more happened to me, I could not think of anything to say to anyone in every situation, just horrible. Growing up I was always the nervous and shy kid in the class. I would try to avoid any human interaction whatsoever. I didn't like that, I mean, no one does. The stress and effort it takes to talk about anything, that should not be hard. Don't get me wrong, there are some people out there that you simply just cannot connect with, there is just nothing that you have in common, and tha...